Woman in the Hands of God: Proverbs 31:23-25

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Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.

~Prov. 31:23

Is there a satisfactory application of this verse that renders it profitable, when we’re far in time and geography from Israel’s local councils? A certain kind of thinking would translate this specifically into church eldership. Within those confines, the wife’s work is strictly delineated as non-spiritual beyond the principle of charity, tailored to the circle of family and fellow believers.

While the broad principle applies, does it fall within the requirements of God’s character and the New Testament expression of Christian personhood to so confine an entire gender by insisting on a straight parallelism?

Here, in fact, we have a failure of the fundamentalist viewpoint which attempts to exalt simplistic living and strict social patterns. Two culprits may be in play: an eschatology which urges Christians to hide in the hills as the world worsens, or a theology which presses the body of all believers for all time into the specific mold of national Israel.

Her husband is known. By whom? Of course the elders would know him. He’s right there beside them.

She works among the businesspeople, the merchants who go in and out of the gates. Her presence in the community would encourage fair dealings, because she has a direct line to the arbiters of law and order. As a positive incentive, one wants to be thought well of before those of influence; as a negative, one does not want to be caught out in things which make one look bad. That’s a purely human, selfish perspective, and yet it comes into play all the time.

On the other hand, there’s the inspirational factor. Those who wish to do good need to know that they’re not alone. We can build one another up in the pursuit of what’s God-focused. But sometimes, people need to know they’ve got backing, that they won’t be torn down or discriminated against for seeking to uphold justice. At least, not without recourse.

She and her husband are involved in their community, participating in the world around them, and they make a difference. They are advocates for the afflicted, the poor and needy. Clearly, she and her husband are not people who’ve gone off to “live in a tree,” as my pastor put it last Sunday. Is it relevant whether a faith-based community or a more general one is in view? Not necessarily.

She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies belts to the tradesmen.

~Prov. 31:24

Is it necessary, then, for Christians to create a parallel economy amongst themselves, a “sanctified” form of trade? Should we attempt to deal only with those who profess what we do?

Thinking back to the maidens within her household, I’m not convinced that this would serve the purpose of upholding the afflicted and needy. On a very basic level, everyone needs to make a living. In order to create economic empowerment for those who have none, a stable trade base is needed. This trade with shopkeepers or other sellers translates into work for the household, filtering gain to the disadvantaged from within the safety of the house’s employment.

Strength and dignity are her clothing,
And she smiles at the future.

~Prov. 31:25

Last time around, I wrote about the symbolism of her clothing’s colours. But how proverbial is this passage?

Strength and dignity are her clothing. Fine linen and purple, scarlet. At the core of it all, again, is a faith which gives the strength to step out in the community and be a force for stability, prosperity and peace. And something more.

The first time I read this, I was a very new Christian. I had never before laughed at the thought of the future. It hit me like a lightning bolt: This is a different life entirely from the affliction and need of a lost soul. I am safe as a woman in the hands of God.

I read that verse again and again, and I wept.

Perhaps the joy of salvation is the most concrete need there is.

4 thoughts on “Woman in the Hands of God: Proverbs 31:23-25

  1. As she steps on my toes. :o )

    You know I want to go off and live in a tree. Either that or a co-housing community of like minded people. When I get anxious, I think of moving further out into the country. I start to spend time looking for land and designing my home. I hope it counts that I know that this isn’t God’s will for me and that He expects me to make a positive impact where I am placed.

  2. >>She and her husband are involved in their community, participating in the world around them, and they make a difference. They are advocates for the afflicted, the poor and needy. Clearly, she and her husband are not people who’ve gone off to “live in a tree,” as my pastor put it last Sunday. Is it relevant whether a faith-based community or a more general one is in view? Not necessarily.<<

    I've always seen this as the best reason for and most fulfillment in marriage. Working together as one…not just sleeping together as one, but actually working together in life toward whatever God has called both of you to do.

    I used to LOVE to work with my husband. And I totally do not think it is relevant whether that work is done within the faith-based community…in fact, the faith-based community will benefit, but should also be a headquarters from which such couples sortie to impact the world in whatever gifts and skills God has ordained that they are best at.

    On that note, there was a very wonderful series of messages on the Discover The Word podcast from January to March of this year on the theology of work. I can highly recommend it to everyone. We in the faith-based community tend to think that the only real job is a spiritual one: minister, missionary, etc. But God has another idea, and this series brings it out.

    You can access the podcast at http://www.discovertheword.org. Use the search function to find the January 2010 broadcasts, and then just keep listening. Each one is about 12 to 15 minutes long.

    As I ducked over there to make sure of the address, I noticed that there is a newer podcast on "How is the Proverbs 31 Woman Misunderstood by Our Generation". Gotta run…gonna listen to that!

  3. I could be happy living in a tree too. ;)

    “She smiles at the future” – what an amazing affirmation of faith. Actually, this whole chapter is an amazing affirmation of godly womanhood. Good post!

  4. Julie, I pretty much DO live in a tree, so it’s an act of grandiose hypocrisy for me to write that… :-D

    Esther, actually, getting out as a team is one thing I wish we did more of. It’s something that just feels right, and it’s like getting to know one’s spouse all over again. (And thanks for the link!)

    Katie, isn’t that true? It was one of the first things I read in the Bible, and it was the beginning of learning to be okay as I am.

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